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Cyberbullying in Netherlands

Cyberbullying — a Dutch parent’s field guide.

Country-specific advice that covers what schools in Netherlands must do, the trusted helplines, the law-enforcement route, and the email script that works for talking to your child’s school.

The Netherlands context

Where the law and school policy stand today.

The Netherlands relies on the Wet sociale veiligheid op school (School Social Safety Act), which requires every school to have a written social-safety policy, designated coordinator (vertrouwenspersoon), and yearly evaluation. The Inspectie van het Onderwijs (Inspectorate of Education) oversees compliance.

Scale: About 8–10% of Dutch youth report cyberpesten experience, per CBS data. The rate has held steady for several years. Tweens and early teens are most affected.

What schools in this country must do.

The vertrouwenspersoon is the first internal contact. The directeur (principal) is the second. Persistent issues escalate to the Onderwijsinspectie or the Vertrouwensinspecteur for safeguarding-related concerns. Schools must investigate and document under the Wet sociale veiligheid.

Trusted helplines and resources.

De Kindertelefoon — 0800-0432, free, anonymous, 11am–8pm daily, also chat at kindertelefoon.nl. 113 Zelfmoordpreventie — call 113 or 0800-0113 24/7. Veilig Thuis — 0800-2000 24/7 for adults concerned about a child. Helpwanted.nl — for image-based abuse and grooming.

When to involve law enforcement.

The email script that works for the school.

Email the vertrouwenspersoon and the directeur. Reference the Wet sociale veiligheid and the school’s social-safety plan. Request a formal investigation timeline.

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